Each story represents a journey—one filled with fear, uncertainty, and ultimately, hope. At Care Net Pregnancy Medical Center, we’ve walked alongside countless women and families as they’ve faced unplanned pregnancies, difficult decisions, and personal struggles. Here, you’ll find real stories from real people—stories of strength, grace, and lives forever changed.
These stories are testaments to the power of support, the beauty of life, and the love of Christ at work in each of their lives.
My name is Brensey. I was a terrified 18-year-old girl standing in the shared bathroom stall of my college dorm – holding a pregnancy test that read positive. I was only a few months into my freshman year and had no idea what steps to take next or where to go. I felt as though my life had ended and that God and my family would be so ashamed of the actions that had brought me to where I was. Too afraid to tell my parents, I decided to confide in a small group of friends for guidance and support.
One day, a friend of mine suggested that we look up pregnancy centers near us. I was a few months into my pregnancy at this point and still had not seen a doctor nor told an actual adult about my situation. I didn’t even know if I was going to keep the baby or if the baby was okay. So, we searched Google and found Care Net Pregnancy Medical Center. I scheduled an appointment with Care Net and shortly after walked through their front doors for the first time.
From the time I spoke on the phone with them until the first step I took into their office, I knew I had made the right decision. I felt a warm sense of peace overcome me and knew that everything was going to be okay – they reassured me of that also. I didn’t feel ashamed, and I didn’t feel any judgement from members of the staff. I was treated with respect and most of all with the love of Christ.
Care Net showed me my precious baby for the first time through their ultrasound services; they listened to all my concerns and gave me the resources and guidance I needed to move forward. I walked out of their office that day knowing that I wasn’t a failure; I still had a bright future ahead of me and that God didn’t love me any less.
My son, Josiah, was born on June 9, 2009. He has saved my life in more ways than he will ever know. God always knows what we need more than we know ourselves, and although my pregnancy happened outside of God’s design for me, He has used it as a powerful part of my journey, teaching me about His grace, redemption, and unconditional love. My son, who came from that pregnancy, has been my guiding light over the past year.
My plans were not God’s plans, and God knew when I went to Care Net years ago that the impact they had on my life would be a forever testament of His grace and love. I graduated college in 2014 as a single mom. Since then I have become a career-focused woman, with a talented, intelligent and charismatic little boy by my side. We are blessed and God is good. Care Net has not only impacted my life but also the lives of many other women, men and unborn children.
“This cannot be right!” My mind raced as I sat alone on one side of the bathroom door. The voice on the other side said, “WELL… What does it say?” Shaking with uncertainty, I pulled myself up from the floor and opened the door. Standing there was my husband. I showed him the test. “Is it mine?” he replied.
“Is it yours?” I was shattered. Of course it was. Was there really another option? I had no life. I stayed home with our 18 month old son, that I gave birth to a few months after turning 18. I knew I needed to divorce the man I was with and how would I do that with 2 babies? I could handle one, but two? Who would want a woman who was not even 21, divorced with 2 kids? My mind was made up. I picked up the phone book, turned to the Yellow Pages, and searched “abortion clinics”. I thought I’d found one so I called and made an appointment.
A few days later, I loaded up my toddler and took him to the appointment with me. I remember thinking what a horrible mother I was for taking him to that appointment. Am I considering taking his brother? His sister?
The first time that I walked through the doors at CareNet the year was 2004. There was a woman at the front desk – her eyes sparkled with compassion. I, not really believing in God at the time, felt at ease. I needed help and they knew that but I didn’t feel judged. I just felt loved.
I was called back and my son played out front. I took another test and it told us what I already knew. After a few moments, I knew in my heart what my decision was. But HOW was I going to do it?
CareNet offered me support through various resources, solutions, supplies, guidance, and LOVE! But most importantly, they believed in me. CareNet taught me what God’s love really is and I was given tools for life that not only made me a better mother but a better person. I had no idea how the rest of life was going to play out, I knew I had to do what my heart felt was right. I could live with the outcome and I was going to give it my best shot! Ryan turned 16 in October. He is the life of our family. He was voted “Most School Spirit” as a Freshman and this year represented his Sophomore class as homecoming attendant. He plays varsity soccer, writes for his high school newspaper, and maintains an A/B average in school while working part-time. He hopes to attend college to major in sports management or sports broadcasting.
Ryan knows his story. He knows mine. CareNet is part of both of ours and for that we will forever be grateful.
A baby changes everything. Hallelujah!
LOVE, Gin and Ryan
My story begins in 1973 when abortion was legalized. I, being pregnant and a senior in college, had a choice to make. I felt all the emotions: fear, panic, and relentless anxiety focused on “my problem.” I decided to choose the easy way out and scheduled an abortion. My boyfriend, who is now my husband, fully supported my decision.
I had no idea that my “easy way” out would result in so much emotional, mental and spiritual distress. I can tell you that the woman’s choice to end her baby’s life brings with it profound and significant consequences… guilt, shame, condemnation, remorse and regret were my heavy burdens to carry.
Fast forward decades. After experiencing salvation and redemption through Jesus, I gradually felt the burdens being removed, including a poor self image, self-hate, and an eating disorder. I was honored to share my story at pro-life events which brought me more freedom. The healing I’ve received through prayer and searching the scriptures for His truth about me has been life changing.
After raising six children with my husband, I can say with no hesitation, children are blessings from God. I am so thankful to be their mother. In the past few years, I have felt a strong desire to share the freedom I have experienced with post-abortive women who may be suffering as I did. So, I contacted CareNet and enrolled in their post-abortive program. I wanted to be sure to cover any “gaps” in my personal healing experience.
I met with a coach for 12 weeks. She was loving and understanding. During that time, I felt free to share my thoughts and feelings with her. I gave our baby a name and wrote a letter to him. I dreamt about him for the first time. She prayed for me, and I knew that CareNet is a “safe place” for women like me. And finally, the experience gave me confirmation that this is the path I am to follow.
I am now a volunteer at CareNet . I am so blessed to work alongside loving and dedicated women who sincerely love both the mother and her baby.
Love,
Jeanette